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Being separated from your grandchildren, or feeling uncertain about your place in their lives, can be extremely upsetting.
At Lanyon Bowdler, we understand just how important the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren can be, particularly where you have been closely involved in their upbringing and day-to-day lives. When family circumstances change, it can leave you feeling excluded, worried, and unsure of what you can do next. Our specialist family law solicitors are here to listen carefully to your concerns, provide reassurance, and guide you through the options available to you with clarity and sensitivity.
Although grandparents do not have automatic legal rights to see their grandchildren, there are often constructive steps that can be taken to restore or maintain contact. We offer legal advice for grandparents on matters such as applying to the court for permission to seek contact, agreeing arrangements outside of court, or exploring options such as special guardianship where appropriate. Every family situation is different, so we take the time to understand your circumstances fully, always keeping the best interests of your grandchildren at the heart of any advice we provide.
Our family law team is recognised by leading legal directories including The Legal 500 and Chambers UK, and many of our solicitors are members of Resolution and accredited by the Law Society for Family Law. This combination of recognised expertise and a genuinely caring, supportive approach means you can feel confident that you are in safe hands during what can be a very emotional and uncertain time.
Contact Lanyon Bowdler today to learn how we can help you and your grandchild.
Our Grandparent Legal Advice Expertise
Aside from our expertise as legal specialists, we understand the importance of a family. The special bond that exists between a grandparent and their grandchild is unique and something to treasure, which is why we want to utilise our expertise and experience in family law to help you maintain this relationship for the many years to come.
We place great emphasis on dialogue and discussion with the child’s parents to agree a way forward, which will ultimately help avoid court action, keep costs down and minimise the stress and anxiety for everyone involved. Working in the best interests of the children is at the centre of all that we do and we have an excellent track record of success when it comes to negotiation.
Where this route does not bring about a resolution however, then we are able to represent you effectively at any court hearings. We will be meticulous and thorough in our preparation of your case to persuade the court of the invaluable role you play in your grandchild’s life and that you should have an ongoing and meaningful relationship with them to significantly benefit you both.
Your Grandparents’ Rights questions answered
The relationship between you and your grandchild is incredibly special so if you have been prevented from seeing them for any reason, the pain and upset caused can be utterly devastating.
Although as a grandparent you have no automatic legal right to contact with your grandchild, the courts recognise the importance of this key relationship and, unless there is a background of violence or abuse, they will be sympathetic to your situation. If the issue cannot be resolved through negotiation with the child’s parents, access can be granted by the court through a Child Arrangement Order.
A Child Arrangement Order is issued by the court detailing the living and contact arrangements for the child involved. They are usually required after a family breakdown, when the parents or those with parental responsibility, cannot agree where their child should live and how often they should see the non-resident parent or other family members.
Most cases are resolved through discussion and mediation without the need for court proceedings but, in the event a solution cannot be agreed upon, the court will make the final decision, which is legally binding until the child is 16.
As a grandparent, before you can apply for a court order to see your grandchild, you will first need permission from the court, which is normally given. Once permission is granted you will then proceed with your application for an order with the aim of securing visitation rights.
The court will weigh up all the evidence presented and will make a Child Arrangement Order, if they consider that is in the best interest of the child involved.
If you wish to secure residency for your grandchild so that they can live with you, the process is largely the same as if you were seeking contact, and you will need to obtain a Child Arrangement Order.
Although grandparents are not automatically entitled to apply for a Child Arrangement Order and will need permission from the court to do so, if you are applying for residency, the following exceptions apply:
- If the child has lived with you for at least three years. This doesn’t have to have been continuous but must not have begun more than five years before or ended more than three months prior to submitting the application.
- If the child has lived with you continuously for a year prior to the application.
- If you have the permission of those named in an existing Child Arrangement Order in relation to the child.
- If the child is in state care and you have permission from the local authority.
If the parents of your grandchild are unable to look after them property or if care proceedings have been issued, you can potentially be appointed as a Special Guardian for your grandchild through a Special Guardianship Order issued by the court.
As a Special Guardian you will be granted parental responsibility for your grandchild until they are 16.
In order to be granted Special Guardianship you will need to take the following steps:
- Contact your local authority and inform the Children’s Services department of your intent to apply for a Special Guardianship Order.
- Undertake an assessment to demonstrate your suitability to be the legal guardian of your grandchild.
- Attend a mediation, information and assessment meeting (MIAM) to explore all options for a resolution before you can apply for a court order.
- Make your application.
We can support you throughout all these stages and are able to help you prepare the documentation and information required for your application.
We are completely transparent and upfront about our prices and offer a number of different payment options to suit all budgets so don’t hesitate contact us for more detailed information.
In some situations, grandparents do not need the court’s permission (known as ‘leave’) to apply for a Child Arrangements Order. For example, if you already have a ‘lives with’ or previous residence order in place, or if your grandchild has been living with you continuously for more than three years, you may be entitled to apply directly.
In other cases, permission from the court may be required before making an application. We can advise you on your eligibility and guide you through the process, ensuring your relationship with your grandchild is protected and legally recognised where appropriate.
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By choosing Lanyon Bowdler, you can rest assured that you have the best legal expertise no matter what the situation. Our family law solicitors have vast experience in all areas of family law and we are committed to providing exceptional levels of client care. Our Child Custody Lawyers always act with the utmost discretion and you will be treated with sensitivity and understanding, as we work closely with you to find the best outcome for everyone involved.
We have offices in Shrewsbury, Bromyard, Conwy, Hereford, Ludlow, Oswestry and Telford, regularly acting on behalf of clients across Shropshire, Herefordshire, Mid and North Wales and throughout the Midlands. Our experience makes us the ideal firm to give Legal Advice to Grandparents in Birmingham, Wolverhampton, and Worcester.
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